Then I pull back any loom or sheathing near the connector and make note of the colors (main and stripe) on each wire. Bear in mind that these wires spent a decade and a half in the engine bay of a car, so they are definitely dirty, and may also be discolored or faded. More than once, I have gotten the colors wrong, and have had to go back and look again to find the correct color.
Then I use all of that information to make a little sketch of the connector, and note down its characteristics. There's a pretty well-defined language for this in the documentation.
I do know which harness I am working on, so I can take a look at this chart to make some guesses about which connector it might be, and note those down.
Then I flip through about 150 pages of wiring diagrams, looking for a connector that matches my description. Here, my pinky points to a matching sketch, and my index finger points to more detail on the wiring diagram.
So there we go. It's connector number F79, the connector for the air conditioning pressure switch. I labeled it and moved on to the next connector down the chain.
Here's the current status of the harness. The bits on the table to the left of the blue tape roll have been identified and labeled; the stuff on the floor and to the right of the tape still need to be gone through.
Once I have it all labeled, I can continue the diet.